Do you want to be saved? Not all do but do you?
40 For this is the will of my Father, that everyone who looks at the Son and believes in him would have eternal life, and I will raise him up on the last day.” John 6:40 (LEB)
Okay. Two things need to be done. 1. Look to Jesus. 2. Trust Him. That leaves out reading self-improvement books and trusting yourself.